Monday, October 24, 2016

Dont run towards adulthood

Ive been told I need to post more often, but topics dont usually pop up in my head frequently...due to either being too busy to think or too lazy to care.  My thoughts for today are stirred up courtesy of a child in my life...A child, not my blood child, but one that is considered as such.  Actually more than one...but anyhow.  I feel that with my age and experience i have a slight ground to stand on when i send out a pleading to not rush to be an adult.  Not only have i been a victim, but ive watched a few over the years see the err of their ways.  Which leads me to believe that there will be not retaining this info, but instead learning the hard way and believing that unicorns exist...or rather that their situation will be different because they are bulletproof, they are unstoppable (which translates to naive and reckless).  Either way, here goes.  I sit and watch these young adults, the future of our country and im sad.  We have boys that think its normal to drag their pants, throw signs, slap the booty, use women, degrade women because the songs say so.  We have girls desperate to be 'loved' (very skewed) so they pound on the make up, they buy the clothing too small, they naively send revealing pics or videos of themselves to the boys they want so much to be accepted by or loved by, so they will resort to shoving down their self respect and no longer demand respect from the boys.  I say boys, because anyone that would request such actions of these girls are nothing more than boys, boys who werent parented right, boys who werent taught that a female is not something you deserve, but something you earn and youre not earning what she can give you to satisfy your petty desires...shes a potential life partner, someone to share your life with, someone who will be the mother of your children.  As you see this is leaning more towards the children who prompted my random thoughts are female.  Rushing to be grown, yes youre 16,17 or 18...yes you drive, yes you have a job, yes you are somewhat independent, but NO you are not an adult, you are not making wise choices, you are not seeing the consequences of your foolish actions, no you are not demanding respect, no you do not respect yourself.  IF you were making adult decisions as you so much want to be an adult, then you would end any relationship that is not worthy of your time, you would end any communication with someone who requests pictures or videos of you in compromising positions, you would definitely run from any person who lacked such respect for you by sending such things over the internet for God and anyone else to see, you would see that someone older really has no use for someone your age other than a toy.
On the other side, CHEESE AND RICE people, mothers of sons, for the love of God demand that your sons respect women, demand that they treat them as they should be treated....women are not their toys to tinker with and use and if you are out there calling yourself a man, yet you think women are put on this earth for you....step in front of a bus please...while its moving....at a fast rate of speed...you are part of whats wrong in this world!  If you want a less drastic solution, make an appt with your doc and go snip those worthless things hanging between your legs and dont reproduce...raising more idiots like yourself would be tragic.
Moral of todays story: dont try to act grown up so fast, keep your self respect and demand it of others, date your own age, pony up boys and stop being scumbags.

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